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Secrets For a Perfect Love
Space and allowing your partner to live their life is key to a healthy relationship. If you want to love, you must first learn to forgive and forget our past hurts and grievances. We must let go of our fears, prejudices, and other stereotypes.
That is when we can truly capture love and let it bloom to its full potential. Do not let your past control who you are today, you control who you want to be.
People have a pretty big tendency to think that everything that happens, involves us in some way. It is called "Personal Importance" and is hard to get rid of.
When someone close to us does something good or bad, we tend to think it is about us. We need to realize that while we are a big part of our partner’s life, they will do things for them too.
If you take every action they do personally, you are sure to go crazy and will probably feel unloved.
Being more understanding of their emotions and feelings and trying to realize why they do the actions they do is a great way to get past our personal importance. This doesn’t mean they can get away with hurting your feelings, but it does mean that they do have a chance to do things for themselves as well.
Allow your partner to go for their dreams and be who they want to be. This is one of the most vital keys to a happy relationship, according to the study conducted by Northwestern University researchers along with the Vrije Universieit in Amsterdam and the University of London.
Couples need to allow their partner to be who they want to be and to help these hidden qualities in them flourish.
The “Michelangelo phenomenon” refers to the Florentine sculpture that could see Michelangelo in the block of stone, being able to see and bring out the beauty in something plain is important to relationships.
Eli Finkel from Northwestern University says that you and your partner must think about where you personally want to be in the next ten years, and have similar wants for a happy relationship.